„You won’t make it“

Who hasn’t heard that yet? I mean, surely, usually we wouldn’t connect a ldr with this sentence. At least not on the first thought. But there will come a day people will start criticizing you for your decision to be in a ldr. My personal experience: The first time I told my mom about my…

How to face the struggle of missing them too much?

I guess, we all know how annoying it can be not to be able to talk with your love for some hours or even a day. Of course, it feels very good when they come back from wherever and have time for you – whether it’s texting or calling. But what is if your partner…

Yana and J.

Following is an interview with Yana. She’s in a ldr too and loves to share her experience with us. Her boyfriend J. (for privacy matters I don’t give his complete name) is from the US and Yana is Chinese. They have a time difference of 12 hours in summer and 13 hours in winter. Winnie:…

Some things to know about a long-distance relationship

To be honest, a long-distance relationship isn’t always easy. It’s in many ways completely different from normal relationships, but this doesn’t mean it’s worse than them. On of the most annoying facts about a ldr is the distance between you and your lover. You can’t call them and ask them to come over when you…